The question of what do men want in a relationship has puzzled us women long into the mists of time! Because whilst I am sure that we agree that men and women are equal, that does not mean they are the same, and these differences between the sexes really show up dramatically in relationships.
What Do Men Want In A Relationship… The Difference Between The Sexes
Over time women come up with all kinds of strategies to better understand their men, but often times when you do these kind of strategies in the real world you often find that they come up short, and you are still left with the question of what do men want in a relationship, and how can you give it to them. (This is the best practical guide I have found)
The thorn that stops the rose being quite as beautiful in this whole debate about relationship dynamic’s is that whilst you want to be the best partner that you possibly can be, that you don’t want to be a doormat, and you don’t want your partner to take you for granted. So in some ways there is a little bit of a balancing act that is going on, and it needs to be borne in mind.
There is a very real sense that you have to first decide what YOU want in a relationship before worrying so much about what men want, because fundamentally you are in control.
There are literally billions of men! And so a better place to start is to decide what you want in a relationship, and then find men that suit you.
Of course, we all know that attraction works in funny ways, and so we end up going out with (or even marrying) men that seem as though are diametrically opposite to the type of men that we should be in a relationship with. And so we find ourselves back at square one asking “What do men want in a relationship?” because we are fundamentally confused by our own partner.
The good news is that even if you find yourself without a clue in the world as to what men want in a relationship, that there are guides that can help to show you.
One such guide is Men Made Easy By Kara Oh and I will discuss that below.
So, What Do Men Want in a Relationship?
What Do Men Want In A Relationship
Unfortunately this is not like the ‘Magic Tonic’ that used to sold in the Wild West that cures all ailments. Everyone’s relationship with their man is different and so you need to approach the answer to the question in an intelligent way. Rather than looking for a single magic pill that will tell you exactly what men want in a relationship? You need to instead do a little digging yourself.
The best way that I have found of digging out the answer to what do men want in a relationship is to turn back to my trusty guide by Kara Oh, Men Made Easy.
This lays down in really easy to understand language twelve key insights that she has had about men, and how you need to approach those in a relationship.
Each of these is a bit like a ticking time bomb, because any of them could apply to the relationship you have with your man, but there is every likelihood that more than a select few will apply.
In this way, in any given relationship situation you can use the advice in the book to find out what applies in your circumstance, and find out the answers you need.
There are some answers in there that you WILL find surprising, and which you would never figure out on your own.
If you are faced with wondering what men really want in a relationship then I recommend you check it out.